SEVEN SECRETS OF A CONFIDENT WOMAN by Joyce Meyer

It feels like ages when I last wrote a post, however, since I have neglected my writing a lot these days, I am really trying to get back on track with it. I've been journalling a lot lately and that only means that I have a lot to share with the Creator. The past month has been very tough and I admit that I have lost faith in myself. I'm desperate to get back every inch of "me" there is that I have lost along the way. I tell you, growing up isn't easy and it sure is even more difficult when you don't believe in yourself or when you don't appreciate yourself. Us women have to struggle with these insecurities every single day and we also realise how much it affects our peers. A couple of weeks ago, I found this article. I love Joyce Meyer's books and she is such a great inspiration. I hope this article helps as much as it helps me to remember, that we are worth it and that it's what God wants us to see ourselves.

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Secret #1 A confident woman knows that she is loved

The first and most important secret to being a confident woman is to know that you are loved by God unconditionally. Romans 5:8 says, …God shows and clearly proves His [own] love for us by the fact that while we were still sinners, Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One) died for us. Even if your natural father did not really love you properly, you can still get the love and acceptance you missed in your childhood from God.

CHOICES THAT KILL THE COMMUNITY by ANNIE LEONOR

I have had a lot of realisations the past couple of weeks and these made it even clearer about how thankful I am to be in this community to help out and to take care of everyone. It gives me strength to be around these inspiring people. However, this following entry is something that every community could need. Sometimes in life, things don't go well enough on your own. That's why it is even more important to have a group of people behind your back that are strong enough with and for you. But of course, everyone has to do its piece.

A great sister of mine held a talk about this topic and I would gladly share it with you. It's in German, but I guess you've all heard of it already. Thanks Annie for letting me post this. Enjoy!

Choices that kill the community

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THE LAST: "WHO, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, WHY"

"A simple question, "How many have you loved?"

Is your answer, one and only? Or is it several, all of whom have shaped your life?" - Wong Fu Productions

Another great short film by the talented Wong Fu Productions. They amaze me everytime. Starting with their filmmaking, editing and leaving it off with their amazing storytelling. The plot of this shortfilm is simple yet very deep and that's what makes it so special. I am inspired, they inspire me to make simple things great and I can't stop raving about this one.

Just the other day I got weirded out by my mother who seemed to ask me a lot of question early in the morning where my brain wasn't really awake yet. So I kept nodding to all of her questions until she asked how my lovelife was. I nodded and added that it went well. She then said, "You know, your dad was my seventh!" And then she just left the house because she was late for work. Anyways, she left me there quite confused althought I knew in what context she meant it.
Just like in the video above, my mother taught me that if things go wrong with a certain guy, that life goes on. But more importantly, that the people who walk in and out of your life, shape your story on Earth. That is why I quite confidently go into the world being appreciative (or at least trying hard to be) with every person I get to know, because who knows how they can shape your life?
And don't be intimidated by how many partners your current other half has had because there are thousands of better reasons why she/he is with you right now. Just be grateful to the past people she/he was with because they made her/him the way they are right now - they learnt from their mistakes, they learnt how to treat to you better, they learnt how to teach you how to make things better than they did.
I am very happy and thrilled with where I am right now regarding my lovelife, yet I can't imagine and see what still lies ahead of me. But for now, I'll just stick to being happy, glad and excited because the man up there writes my story.

More from Wong Fu Productions :

http://www.wongfuproductions.com

*On my site: Strangers again
http://ezzycupcake.blogspot.co.at/2011/04/strangers-again.html

*Youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/WongFuProductions

*Twitter:
http://www.twitter.com/wongfupro

CONFESSIONS: CHALLENGES

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Currently there is so much new going on and it takes some time for me to get used to it but I am getting there and my efforts are on the highest level. I took up the challenge to get out of my comfort zone and as much as I am very unsure and quite afraid of failure, I will keep on going because these signs are just pointing towards growth. Even though I feel like there was a set back in my personal growth, I cannot dwell on thinking that I am not good enough for every opportunity that opens for me. It is true, not everything turns out to be something for the longrun but then again, if doesnt work out, I can be sure that God has a greater plan for me. That's why I need to keep on reminding myself why I wanted this, for what and for who I do all this.
In times like these, I admit it, I feel pretty alone because I feel like noone can help me but myself to get through this. Of course, I will never be alone and I have the most supportive people in my life but in order to grow, I need my mind to focus on its own and not through other people.

I won't apologise for seeming helpless and I don't care if what I've talked about is not a big deal. Every person is different and also has a different way of tackling new things. All I need is the feeling of support whether I am going to fail or not.

SISTERHOOD: PROTECTING OUR HEARTS

You guys may have noticed that I am an avid blog reader and sometimes when the mood feels right, I research different topics. This time I have come across this topic which doesn't seem to be important for single ladies out there but in one point of your life, it will. Love doesn't start when you and a guy are officially together, no, love starts way before and that's why in order not to be crushed when something that seems like a fairy tale finds its end, you have to be prepared with the right words and the right attitude. Ladies, just give it a shot and read this great article with short tipps, I found.

LADIES

It's good to keep in mind where you are coming from and where your heart should be placed, which shouldn't be stolen from a guy who doesn't have your best interest at heart.

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Ezzy

BROTHER/SISTERHOOD WEEKEND 17.03.-18.03.

As you can see, I am quite an active member in my community and it has grown into a very important part in my life. It is not only a little get away whenever things add up but it also a place where I can hang out with my friends as well as learning more about Jesus. Last weekend's activity was a purely great one. All the girls got to have quality time together as well as learning so much more about the roles of a woman and the way to live as a catholic woman. It was very educative and emotional but it was a lot of fun as well. 

This activity gave us a chance to act like sisters towards another, since we are God's children and it also gave us the opportunity to grow with one another, to open up to one another and of course learn from one another. It just feels good when you know that you can always turn to someone because at the end of the day, we do fight the same battles. I am proud of all the sisters and I am so glad, that I could share this lovely event with them. 

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=] <3 don't forget to smile.

Ezzy

UPDATES

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Here I am, still lying in bed, not really ready to get up even though my belly said it needed some food. It's been a rollercoaster of a month, juggling my time and energy with studies, preps for upcoming YFL events and personal issues. Since I didn't really find something to fast for, I just decided to keep my prayertimes regularly as well as reading The Purpose Driven Life. That book has helped me understand a lot of things which I honestly just took for granted over the years. The deeper meanings of certain topics just feel more logical to me and make it feel as if it is the right thing to do. We may all not be perfect but I think just trying to do the right thing is something where we can say "way to go". I myself have done some pretty weird things lately and sometimes your mind just plays with you but at the end of the day, you heart still tells you which path is meant for you. You might have to be patient and steady to know what you heart wants to tell you but one day a light will come up and you figure out that thats God's plan for you. Before everything else, dont forget to pray and trust that God will show you his way for you.

So yeah, I am really excited about this upcoming weekend. May it be a very educative and affirming weekend. Up till then...

=] <3 don't forget to smile.

Ezzy

DIMANCHE D'EXPRESSION

God blessed YFL with six new members in the New Year!
I have again learnt so much during this Special Camp and I am proud to say that I love serving H I M. These people are such an inspiration and I can also say that this Camp has been such a great and different experience. We had many laughs and also many inspiring and emotional moments. I'm proud of the Service Team and their committment albeit the short notice and a bit of stress around. But hey, what do they say "too blessed to be stressed!"
I am so happy that God called out these seven young people to be his followers! It is just great when the people you grew up with can share their love and their belief with you!

Welcome again, YFL-Babies! Just a week ago all the fun started! I hope that the two days of Camp are a lifetime memory for you guys :)

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=] <3 don't forget to smile.
Ezzy

You said, ask and you will receive, whatever you need

Hotline Numbers To God

- when in sorrow, call john 14.
- when you have sinned, call psalm 51.
- when you’re in danger, call psalm 91.
- when you grow bitter, call 1 corinthians 13.
- for paul’s secret to haps, call colossians 3:12-17.
- when your prayers grow narrow and selfish, call psalm 67.
- if you find the world growing small and yourself great, call psalm 19.

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