Thoughts Challenged#1: If you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend?

So recently, don't ask me how, I have bumped into this great blogsite. It's mostly about life and everything around it and most of the posts are pretty inspirational and motivating.
Hence, I sort of decided to answer a few questions and sort of just write my opinion on stuff. So, yes, this will be a new regular thing that I will hopefully pull through. And to let you know, those aren't just any random questions. I have based my questions on this blog and I hope you can get some thinking done as well. So, the challenge is set for 10 questions, starting from today. Enjoy :)

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Alright, it kind of took me some time to find out how I talk to myself. Everyone speaks to him/herself sometimes, the elderly people do it more often than the younger people but still - you sometimes speak to yourself. Nevertheless, I pretty much talk a lot to myself in my head and imagining my mind being a friend of mine... wow! I don't think that friendship would last long. And yes, that is a clever question to answer right there. Anyways, I will conclude later. First off the reason.

The friendship would probably start off pretty well since we share the same views and opinions. However, as soon as the friendship goes more into the deep emotional level where serious talks start to begin, I wouldn't know how I could cope with that friends' compelxity, confusion and complication.

That friend would just constantly overanalyse things and would throw reproaches against her/himself and I wouldn't know if I could handle all the negativity since it would mark off on myself as well. Truth is, I don't like to be around negative people. I used to be around several negative people in my life and I have shut them out but they left a mark on me. Their attitude left a mark on me and I still find it hard to overcome that way of thinking. However, I am glad that the people who I let in are pretty optimistic and great people who have their goals and most importantly, believe in themselves. 

So yeah, now the conclusion and the reason why I think this question is pretty sneaky:

It makes you think about the thoughts you have in your head. Now thinking about what I am mostly thinking about isn't something that should be continued. If you ask yourself and analyse the things your mind thinks, good for you if they are good and great, but if they are like mine, overcritical and insecure, then of course changes have to be made.

This leads and reminds me of the Proverbs 4:23 "Be careful what you think because your thoughts run your life."

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Ezzy

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Ezzy

How 'Mean Girls' teaches you everything

I've just stumbled upon this super funny and great blog. It's from the website hellogiggles.com and I must say I enjoyed reading this post. It's one of these post where you just go 'man, I can really relate to this'. The people who know me, know that I absolutely adore the 'Mean Girls' movie and that I know most of the movie's lines off by heart. And of course, that I could watch this movie a million times and I would definitely force you to watch it too - regardless if you're a guy. So, I hope this post will make you giggle as much as I did because the things written in it is just very legit. Enjoy!

"Oh my God, I love your skirt! Where did you get it?"

'MEAN GIRLS’ TAUGHT ME EVERYTHING by Heather Taylor

Never Date a BFF’s Ex

It is seriously the rules of feminism at work here. Gloria Steinem might have said that a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle, but what she really meant was that the man in question could not be your best friend’s ex. It’s called reading between the lines. You’re welcome.

You Really Can’t Make British Slang Happen in the Suburbs

It’s depressing, isn’t it? I liked “fetch” for what it was worth. So fetch. It could still happen and become a thing, right? I went through a period where I used to say “bloody hell” and was teased by my family members for doing so. To date, there is nothing I like better than a British accent. Something about a guy cocking his head toward me and saying “right then, jolly good” has me to the point where I just want to have all of his babies ever for him. Which would have to be born in the UK, thus giving me a valid reason to move and claim citizenship overseas. Always keep trying to make fetch happen, ladies of the world.

Ramblings of February 2009

I've just looked at my very old tumblr blogs and found this.
I was just thinking to put some of my old blogs in here.. just like that, just because i feel like it :P

I figured, that you don’t have to grow apart when you don’t want to. As long as you’ve got the will to figure it all out and try your best sticking to them then you can be part of everyone’s life. The insecurities of not being an important person to someone or not being part of the game just hinder you from staying in that person’s life. You’ve got to ignore the insecurities and just live the moment and take every opportunity and chance there is - that’s how insecurities might fade away. No, you can’t play your cards against nature but you can play your cards in a certain order that for a moment come out of your shell and be someone you’re not used to. In life, you regret a lot but you also learn from the mistakes you make.

=] <3 don't forget to smile.
Ezzy